change mind or scare away

you tell me to grow up because i want a bigger room?
how about you grow up and stop flaming others when they ask for help?

Getting up set over words that you don't like is a childish action. From the way you present yourself you obviously don't want to learn new ways to better yourself. Growing up and seeing that crying over your school room size makes you sound like a spoiled brats that can't stand not getting their way.

Try this magical spell, it is one I practice everyday. It is called being thankful for what you have and giving back for it. When you start this chain of events you will gain more of what you need that you will want for nothing.

Some people don't even have one room,they live on the streets. Truly,grow up. First learn the basics,you're trying to misuse magic,I just hope everyone on this site is wise enough not to tell you some spells that will get back at you.

im sorry to say but have to agree little one your anger is taken over when you cut it in half you will be ale to see what you can do for what you need

I believe full-heartedly in coin flips. They are, in a sense, a divination. You got the small room by some purposeful twist of fate. Maybe there is some unexplored blessing in the small room? You may save yourself some unnecessary suffering by exploring that mindframe.

Aside from that, i don't know of a spell that would work specifically to your situation. As others have mentioned, it may be too "mundane" of a situation to apply traditional magic to. That doesn't stop some people from creating a working, though. You could:

Sweeten her up, make her more friendly to you and thus more amenable to switching rooms. Google "honey jar spell" for my favorite.

Or, as you said, you could try a commanding spell, something to get into her head, make you boss, and therefore manipulate her that way. Google "commanding spell." I'd look on the spell archive at www.luckymojo.com. I'm not sure what this site has in the way of command spells.

And just to throw in a little side note, kts, hopemyheart might not nessesarily be childish, just a little misguised.

Hopemyheart, try changing your own disposition. It can work wonders on yourself and other :)

I'm sorry I reacted a little bit....Well,harsh. But,there are better ways than commanding. You can dip her in sweetnes,than be her roomate-share the room-it is big anyway! But,commanding spells are black magic,and there is black magic,doing harm is dark,and evil,and...Manipulating is a mental harm. :) Or,why don't you search for another room? It deosn't have to be the biggest,it can be just a big room..Like,some luck to make someone move out to their own place and you get that room... :D

Well I live in a appartment and I hate it. It is small and everything. But I am just so happy I have some place to live. Some times people are handed something shitty but the less you got the more thankful u are for the things you got. If u have everything u want it is easy to become greedy or used or both. Maybe this girl had less then u in some way or maybe u always got what u wanted and need to learn how others feel that dont have much. Or maybe u did not come money and maybe it is not ur time to have a big room yet.

And this girl you should go up to her and ask out right why dont you like me? If I have done something that offended you I am truely sorry and I would like to make peace and be friends. If she just say I dont like you. Tell her their must be a reason and that you would like to know and if she dont tell you why just be like ok fine but here is some advice stop being a selfish Bitch because you wont get far in life being shitty for no reason and their is karma shit on people like that it will come back to u some day so try to be a better person and have a better heart. Just tell her that just tryin to work it out will make u a better person and u will feel better for trying.

Getting up set over words that you don't like is a childish action. From the way you present yourself you obviously don't want to learn new ways to better yourself. Growing up and seeing that crying over your school room size makes you sound like a spoiled brats that can't stand not getting their way.


!!!!Hmm, that is generally what insensitive people say when to others who don't "like" their words. I could suggest you practice what you preach kts, i.e. not arbitrarily banning members because you don't like their opinions or point of view.

I also suggest not telling others to "get a thicker skin" which is essentially what you are saying, when you yourself have a very, very thin one, and use your position as moderator to basically control what others say to you, and to say what you wish.

Also, maybe your words to this person were out of line, and insensitive. While it is very easy to say that others should just "buck up" and not let the words of another bother them, it seems to me that your words were of a personal and insulting nature, hence the person had good reason to get upset. Please think on this, and your own inability to "take the words of others" before you pass judgment.