change mind or scare away

I'm sorry I reacted a little bit....Well,harsh. But,there are better ways than commanding. You can dip her in sweetnes,than be her roomate-share the room-it is big anyway! But,commanding spells are black magic,and there is black magic,doing harm is dark,and evil,and...Manipulating is a mental harm. :) Or,why don't you search for another room? It deosn't have to be the biggest,it can be just a big room..Like,some luck to make someone move out to their own place and you get that room... :D

Well I live in a appartment and I hate it. It is small and everything. But I am just so happy I have some place to live. Some times people are handed something shitty but the less you got the more thankful u are for the things you got. If u have everything u want it is easy to become greedy or used or both. Maybe this girl had less then u in some way or maybe u always got what u wanted and need to learn how others feel that dont have much. Or maybe u did not come money and maybe it is not ur time to have a big room yet.

And this girl you should go up to her and ask out right why dont you like me? If I have done something that offended you I am truely sorry and I would like to make peace and be friends. If she just say I dont like you. Tell her their must be a reason and that you would like to know and if she dont tell you why just be like ok fine but here is some advice stop being a selfish Bitch because you wont get far in life being shitty for no reason and their is karma shit on people like that it will come back to u some day so try to be a better person and have a better heart. Just tell her that just tryin to work it out will make u a better person and u will feel better for trying.

Getting up set over words that you don't like is a childish action. From the way you present yourself you obviously don't want to learn new ways to better yourself. Growing up and seeing that crying over your school room size makes you sound like a spoiled brats that can't stand not getting their way.


!!!!Hmm, that is generally what insensitive people say when to others who don't "like" their words. I could suggest you practice what you preach kts, i.e. not arbitrarily banning members because you don't like their opinions or point of view.

I also suggest not telling others to "get a thicker skin" which is essentially what you are saying, when you yourself have a very, very thin one, and use your position as moderator to basically control what others say to you, and to say what you wish.

Also, maybe your words to this person were out of line, and insensitive. While it is very easy to say that others should just "buck up" and not let the words of another bother them, it seems to me that your words were of a personal and insulting nature, hence the person had good reason to get upset. Please think on this, and your own inability to "take the words of others" before you pass judgment.