cant control any element

You'll find that you can't really ever control an element. You can influence the flow and release of Energy, but elements are sentient beings, not defined by the physical things that are normally related to them.

If you are talking about something as basic as controlling Energy, that requires more focus and determination than I think is possible from someone who hasn't been working at it for a long time. Practice of Magick sometimes requires months or years of patience, as you will try and fail a great many times before you ever start to see success.