aw man. Well if you believe in reincarnation, just make sure the next body your going to is a girls body, because maybe your soul picks to be female in most of your past life's but your soul accidentally thought this was a girls body not a girl. This happens to a lot of people. Your not the only one.
Ok first of all, stop with the asking to become every magickal/mythical female being you can think of.
Secondly, there is no spell to change your gender. While I can appreciate the whole " trapped in the wrong body " thing....magick is not going to solve it.
There are numerous people who feel like you do. Instead of looking for the simple easy way out of the problem they have with their physical self, they do something about it. There is dressing to be the role, and of course surgery. The last is a long process that required years of doing the first suggestion.
I'm sure you understand that even with the options provided to you, you will never truely be a female. If that is the issue that you have with it, then you need to seek counciling to work on the issues you have.
The Soul wouldn't have made a mistake like that. Every life has a purpose, a lesson to be learned.
Guiselle, it's possible that you are meant to learn what it's like to be a male in this life. Your Soul might prefer to be a female in most lives, which could be why you would act feminine and not enjoy being male, but if you have never been a male before then the point in you being a male now is that you learn from it. Your Soul collects lessons from every life. That is why we reincarnate, to learn more.
Not entirely, the Soul can make a mistake as can the Spirit, but chances are he's in the body he has so he can learn what it's like to be a male. It doesn't mean he has to like it, it doesn't mean he has to enjoy it, it means that he has something to learn from it.