I need help finding what type of spell would be best for helping my family and tormented husband. My husband had a thing with cheating. I married him knowing this. But now he's in a situation. He left home 2 months ago and we remain close. We are in love and he wants to come home but his family and other woman have made that's to him and I if he returns this is keeping him away. We both want to be together but he feels it would not be good if he returned. I know I have his love and heart he shows me daily. Its there a spell that can make him come home and not care or worry about what they will think and feel??? Tired of watching or children and him being tormented
I don't think this can be solved by Magick, sweetness, I think this is mundane. I think you need to Diva up and say no to him, he's going to hurt you again and again, you don't need that. You need a man to respect you and love you enough to be faithful to you. Try a small spell to ease things along, but don't let him hurt you anymore, enough is enough, time to put your foot down. You are a strong women, and you can take care of your kids!
Tiffany, why not use your energy to do something positive for yourself. This guy is clearly a weak soul who cannot stand up for you or himself. Do you want to go through the rest of your life battling and casting spells to keep him?
Take the advice of a woman who just ended a 12-year relationship with an abusive, cheating man: it's not worth it.
You say: “I need help finding what type of spell would be best for helping my family and tormented husband. My husband had a thing with cheating. I married him knowing this.”
I say: There is no spell that can help you and your family to overcome the consequences of your spouse’s infidelity. No spell will bring you back the time he spent with the other woman, the gifts, the money he showered on her or the trust you had in him and his promises. No spell will make him a faithful and devoted husband. The relationship is essentially over and you have to move on.
You say: “He left home 2 months ago and we remain close. We are in love and he wants to come home but his family and other woman have made that's to him and I if he returns this is keeping him away.”
I say: If he left your home and the children you both have then he does not love you. He’s lying. He says he loves you. He is again lying. He says he wants to be with you, stay together. That, too, is a lie. No woman or child on Earth can keep, retain a man. Once a man has made his choice there is no power on the planet, even, in some cases, not even magic, that can make him change his mind. A man can have seven children with a woman and have an affair with another incapable of bearing a child, and if he is really in love with her he will leave his wife for the other woman, even if she cannot have children. Men go where they receive attention, it doesn’t matter if they are single, married, with kids, etc.
You say: “We both want to be together but he feels it would not be good if he returned. I know I have his love and heart he shows me daily. It’s there a spell that can make him come home and not care or worry about what they will think and feel??? Tired of watching or children and him being tormented”.
I say: So, he feels it would not be good if he returned? Why? What’s keeping him from being happy with you? What does he show you daily as proof of his undying devotion and love for you? Do you actually want to cast a spell that will make you and your family happy while another family is miserable and unhappy?
Tifani, I’m sorry if I have offended you, but I am going to share with you the very same thing my neighbor (and savior) Candy told me:
“You will not die if you send him off and start living on you own.
You will not die if you pay your mortgage alone.
You will not die if you have to cook meals for one and clean up solely after yourself.
YOU WILL LIVE.
And you will move on to live a happy and peaceful life without him.”
As a practicing witch I can only recommend you to start casting healing spells on yourself and also start cleansing your home from the top all the way down. Salt should become your best friend from now on, research spells and rituals using sea salt or any other type of salt. Use incense, meditate, and find a way to get rid of him. He is no good for you or your children. Use the next New Moon to your advantage and try to visualize a different future for you and your family.
