Hello,
How can I find my soulmate? I am tired of having relationship with women who will love me for two weeks and then get bored and leave me alone. I want to find my soulmate and make a connection.. Do something..
Re: Find My Soulmate??? By: Hollabaluru / Knowledgeable
Post # 4 Sep 24, 2012
Then maybe take a break from dating in general. Really clear your mind, and allow yourself to take in life. If it is always hurting you so much, why repeat it? It is very self-destructive.
Re: Find My Soulmate??? By: lindacash420 Moderator / Adept
Post # 8 Sep 24, 2012
As has been said, you are very young. Sadly, hurt feelings and broken hearts are part of the maturing process. I know it feels like this is the end of the world. Every relationship that ends badly (baldy being mostly when you were not the one who chose to end it) feels that way. It takes time to get over such things, and the best we can do is to learn from it and get on with our lives. There is nothing anyone can do for you other than be supportive in your moving ahead with your life. You need to work on yourself, be a whole and evolved person, then perhaps the gift of a soulmate will come your way. Blessings to you.
Lol, it really seems like you are still fairly young and you misunderstand the whole point of life, and you also think wrongly about the term "soul mate" instead of thinking about a good, ordinary and healthy relationship.
I completely agree with the statements above. You are very young, and you will probably have plenty of chances, opportunities and surprises from life or the universe. In your age, love isn't the olny thing you have to think about while you are still full of life and energy.
Love, relationships or mating isn't everything. You haven't experiences enough during your short life so it'd be fair enough to think only about love and disappointment from it.
You are young. Enjoy your youth, experience new things, learn to challenge yourself, and enjoy life. You can do many important and unique things instead of being broken hearted and thinking about your relationship and love mates for the future.
We also repeat this sentence a lot of times and say : "Love and luck will surprise you while you're not even expecting it".
This sentence basically says that love,luck and success will come while we are not literally thinking about it, expecting it, or being worried about it all time. Thus, it will eventually come to you naturally. Just stop worrying about it and being disappointed only because currently love hasn't showed up.
Take your time and enjoy from what life has to offer you. The results will be amazing.