hi, a friend of mine is being harrassed by a spirit, she is being manipulated and influenced by this negative presence. I dont know what to do. she doesnt see it as a threat even though it is. what can I do to reduce the influence this spirit has over my friend without getting rid of it alltogether?
try to break it's foothold in this world,this will only stop its interaction with people,she will still be able to see and hear of the ghost if she wants to
Re: harrassed by ghost By: WhiteRav3n / Knowledgeable
Post # 3 Mar 11, 2012
If she doesn't think its bad, then perhaps respect her wishes? Maybe her negativity is merely her reaction to you poking around in her business. If you're truly concerned, just cast a protection on her. If that doesn't correct the "influencement" then accept that her actions are her own.
see, meddling in anothers affairs, irregardless of how helpful it may be, kinda goes against the wiccan reed. it's similar to healing spells,unless another asks for help, you're imposing your will on another. you may be helping them, however they may not see it that way, as a result bad things can happen. in regards to your friend, maybe she just likes to vent about stuff. perhaps the spirit isn't negative, but there's time when s/he gets on her nerves. it's normal for friends to complain to other friends about annoyances, that doesn't make the spirit negative. i think more information is needed for me to sway one way or the other. if the friends obsessed, and schedules her life around the spirits, or she turns her back on people/things because the spirit tells her to. then yes, i think talk to her, maybe a protection charm in case, but you still should not do anything drastic unless physical harm from the spirit is threatened. however, if your friend is friends with a spirit, and the 'negative influence' is she's not listening to you when you warn her, then it's not dangerous. in the end, it comes down to your friend choosing what's right for her.