is it someone else here who have seen perverts on this website? It was one Guy who asked me if i like big ..im sorry i Dont wanna say it here, the one who asked me stay away from me and other girls!
Re: Perverts on this website By: Nekoshema / Novice
Post # 3 Oct 19, 2015
Block them and report them to a moderator or site administrator asap. I've had people flirt with me, I just tell them I have a boyfriend and they usually stop, in your case however, I would report it to Petrarca.
Re: Perverts on this website By: Lark Moderator / Adept
Post # 6 Oct 19, 2015
Understand that the Moderators cannot gag or ban someone just because someone complains about them. There is a good reason for this because we have had more than one instance where someone reported another member they disliked just to get them in trouble.
So..here's what you need to do in order to get them dealth with:
1. Block them so they can't send anymore messages to you by clicking on the "ignore" button under their e-mail.
2. Save the message in your "default" folder. (If you delete it then nothing can be done.)
3. Send an e-mail to the Site Administrator and let Petrarca know what the problem is. Pet can then look at the message in your folder and take appropriate action. Only Pet has the ability to see e-mails in your account so your e-mail must go to him.
Just a suggestion but things like not revealing your age, location, or photos of yourself will discourage them.
I'm not saying any of this caused it, I've just seen several profiles with way to much personal information.
Re: Perverts on this website By: H2OfanRikki / Novice
Post # 8 Oct 20, 2015
This is true but sometimes it doesn't matter what you have on your profile, if you seem like a girl they will say the same things. It's sad really that a wonderful website like this has members that are willing to drive off others due to unwanted sexual advances.
Agreed, it's an utter disgrace for someone to behave like that on a site like this. I would hope those people soon feel shame and realize the full extant of what their actions can cause.