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I'm still a bit new here, so I sincerely apologize if this is in the wrong thread.

My girlfriend (21 years old) broke up with me (23-year-old female) right before she started medical school. She is currently in her first week of classes, and we still talk when our schedules permit. She broke up with me because she was worried about how medical school would impact our relationship, but we had no problems otherwise. She just said she was doubting how things would work out, and she even tried to bring up some minor disagreements as evidence for it, but she never gave a solid reason as to why we couldn't stay together. She's under a lot of stress, and even her sister and close friends said she'll want to try again after some time. I just need some sort of help or a sign that things will work out soon. I know I'm being impatient, but I love this girl so much. We talked about building a life together, having kids and maybe pets, etc. We even talked about how to divide finances when we get older and marry each other.

My own background - I'm a second-year graduate student at the same university as my girlfriend. I'm in the doctorate program for clinical psychology. I'll also be working in a hospital this year seeing my own patients, as well as taking grad school courses, holding a part-time job, volunteering, and keeping up with my workout schedule (I bodybuild as a hobby). Even with my full load, I always have time for my girl. She may not have time for me, and I can accept that, but I've always been a huge support system for her. She'll be okay, I'm sure, but this relationship was everything to both of us, and I feel like it ended for the wrong reasons.

Is there anything I can do? I don't know if a love spell would be the correct choice. Maybe a reconciliation spell or broken relationship spell? Any feedback or suggestions would be extremely appreciated, thank you.
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I myself have a girlfriend, but from past relationships, ive come to realize, that if she's stressed, give her room.

She may be at a point in her own life where she needs to figure herself out. And theres nothing wrong with that at all.

Continue to be her support system, and if things don't work out, it wasn't meant to be.. If it does, more power to you.

Give her some time, she may come around. things will work out the way they are supposed to.
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Thank you for the advice =) I know I'm just being impatient, and that she'll come back to me in time. Our relationship made her so happy, and she herself didn't want to give it up. I guess I'll just try to focus on myself for now. Thank you again =)
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