If I'm doing a spell to help my social life-to make my relationships with people better and make me a bit more popular, what moon phase and day should I do it on?
and what candle? i thought brown would be good for that because it's for friendships?
also, is it better if i write a spell myself, or find it? i think that my spell doesn't sound all that good, but it might work better since i wrote it and expressed my wishes in it so it should have more of "my energy" ? :)
brown candle for friendship does not use
to strengthen relations take:
red or pink candle (if you want to attract a romantic or sexual relations),
-orange candle (Engaging sympathies success. Jobs, career).
for simple example. but it is not very strong and gives a short-term effect:
Building friendships and business relationships ritual.
On the one candle to write his name, on the other - the name of the person (to start writing from the wick).
Candles set at a distance of 5 inches apart. Within 7 days, meditate on the desired situation, looking at the candle flame. Each day a candle move up to each other. On the last day to write the desired paper and put under standing close to each other candles. When the candles burn down - and let the paper burn 'in the wind. "
Be careful with these types of spells and rituals as they don't make your life more social per say, but actually give you a burst of what would have been anyhow in a more concentrated dose. While this is fine and all, be aware that there will be a period with absolutely no social interaction shortly before or afterwards, as energy is manipulated, not created.
^^ to add from the new to full moon cuz you want to draw it towards you. a simple way to remember is this as the moon is going to full you're drawing things towards you, full to new you're sending things away. it does get rather complicated as you go on [down to day of the month, week and hour] but if you're in a hurry, the moon phase is the most important. all other factors help you more.