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My opinion on this site
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Post # 1

Yer, so lately, i havent been on this site for AGES mainly cause ive found even better sites where the members actually BELIEVE each other and dont got making bs up about how they dont like fluffies and make fun of each other.

I hate people who call me a fluffy just because they dont believe in therians and werewolves and that. Well the thing is people, many creatures and theories are being discovered every year, so dont go lecturing me bs about how we arent real just cause you have to much of a dense belief.

Thats why i have come to the decision that i absolutely HATE this site (no offence to my friends who support me) and wish i have never seen it. Heaps of the members dont give a shiz about others feelings, and completely puts them down when theyve never even met them or heard their beliefs. No one knows everything, and they never will, so stop making up conclusions and lecturing others about your 'oh so freaking true' rules.

Besides, half the things you say and believe about therians and werewolves are wrong 100% cause we dont kill people, turn into hairy beasts and we dont turn at night only. So grow the hell up and stop telling everyone who has different thoughts than you. Especially those who havent done anything wrong.

I respect everyones beliefs, dont put them down and support them in any way i can, and i am disgusted about how many of you are the complete opposites on this site....anything is possible and if you disagree, keep it to yourself. Im sick of people who put me down, call me a fake and tell me to grow up just because im younger than them or im a girl. Age doesnt matter and neither does gender.

I know im a 13 year old and many of you wont really care, but many of you say you can use magick and things. You have no proof, just like us werewolves dont have much proof. Yet why isnt there any negative activity? I want you to think about that. One thing is as real as the next, no matter how many proof there is.

So go ahead and send me messages about how bad and untrue this all is. Go ahead and call me a little brat who should keep my mouth shut. Hell, bloody call the army for all i care! But no matter what you do or say, you wont ever change my opinion. Send me a message and say that im stupid for even thinking that im a therian, but your wasting your time, cause im deleting my account on here. I dont want my name on a site like this, it doesnt deserve it.

Im sorry for all the wonderful friends that ive made on here, this doesnt go out to yous, and i just hope you find better sites that you actually deserve. Thank yous for being my friends and actually believing me, unlike some jerks on here. Goodbye forever, spells of magic!

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Re: My opinion on this site
By: / Novice
Post # 2
since you're leaving forever, who would send you mail telling you you're wrong? [unless they only read the first sentence and wrote you] while you make good points, i'll rebuttal a few things. i'll start, though, by saying you're right about a lot of people on this site not giving others a chance. in my experience, though, while i try my best to not offend and explain things, a lot of the times, it just results in me getting yelled at either on the forum, or mailed constantly [or sometimes both] so a lot of people, i think, wish to distance their selves, and still prove their point, so they attach before the other person, so to speak.

saying this site is full of horrible people who call you a fluffy, while true, is a generalization. after reading your post, i don't think you're a fluffy, and i try my best to not call someone that, unless they sound like they just watched some fantasy show and start saying how they're all powerful shape shifters and those who have studied for decades are all wrong and only they are right. from what you've said, it sounds to me you're not a fluffy at all, perhaps new to the craft and maybe in need of a teacher, but that's it. there's nothing wrong with your beliefs, but everyone, especially when they're new, needs someone to help them.

the werewolf thing. i honestly believe in werewolfs, i always have, but i don't believe someone can change through magic, that goes for vampires, meremaids, or anything involving wings. magic isn't an all powerful MacGuffin that can change our DNA and alter who we are to fit some image we find totally cool. now from what you say, it sounds to me you have are a type of werewolf, but you don't transform, but you have an animal spirit, or you're one with an animal. when i was younger, i read up on that type of werewolf, and i think it's real. personally, if you're saying you were born it, then i believe you. if you claim magic turned you, that's where i'll call you out.

personally, i love SoM, though there are some people i wish were gone for everyone's sake, half being 'fluffies' and half being those who immediately call someone a fluffy when they just didn't explain themselves, or have different beliefs. overall though, i've been with SoM for as long as i've been studying, and only a few years a go did i start posting on the forums. mostly i read the articles, check out the spells, and add my own. i've tried the chat twice, but i was called out twice, so i avoid it. simple as that.

i hope you do well in your future studies, and have fun on those new magic sites you're on.
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Re: My opinion on this site
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Post # 3
Not to be mean well i use the words not be mean so maybe i am being mean but who EVER asked what you think if you don't like it leave and were sorry we can't help people believe lies i get a lot of messages attacking me and i don't care i just care about people and telling the truth is going to save their time and keep them from the hurt in the end
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Re: My opinion on this site
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Post # 4
hehe I agree with SOME little points on this post :P and tanner, when you said who ever asked immortal what she thinks? wellllll correct me if I'm wrong, but 1) everyone's entitled to their own opinion and 2) I thought these forums were meant to express ones feelings, thoughts or questions? soooo YEEERRRR sorry bout that :-P

but yea, I totally love heaps of people on here, so I won't think about moving for a while :P and as for the whole belief thing? all for that sister! people call us vamps fake, but here we are, real as life itself! but don't let those jerks bring ya down sis!
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Re: My opinion on this site
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Post # 5
I want to leave to a lot of things you have to lie about not to get picked on at. I belive in your way of werewolves, vampires, and other things. i've just never been able to put it in words. You should leave if you wan't too. Nothing will change and I'm sorry for you. Hope you find a better path than this. Blessed be. Miss you.

Tanner didn't you learn something from our last fight?
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Re: My opinion on this site
By: / Knowledgeable
Post # 6
I'm not going to make a big argument about this - since that is a waste of my time when I could be learning or helping some one - but tanner, the post is made in the comments section. A specific section where you can make comments about things (including how the site is in your opinion) whether some one asks you of your opinion or not. Just like immortal made her honest opinion without being asked to, you made your honest opinion without being asked to. No one said "hey, tanner, will you comment on this post?" Unless you actually did which is another story. But I digress. People will believe what they want to believe whether you tell them what is true or not. What is real and what is fake. Now if you jump in and start calling people out and saying "that's fake you, can't do that" more likely than not you are actually going to aid them in believing what you claim is fake. You are going to hurt them more than you are intending to help them. Especially when you come off as rather rude and screaming "Fluffy!" But because of this they will definitely be hurt and they will more than likely go and learn more about what they are claiming to be real and they will learn every thing they can to come back and shove it down your throat to prove you wrong. Thus we have going on a big quarrel between people of the same to similar practices fighting and bickering about what's fake and what's real. This is part of why so many members leave. Why this site has a bad reputation whether it's a lot or a little. This site is meant for people of similar beliefs to come together and teach and learn and share knowledge. Not put people down for what they believe. I mean by , this is ridiculous. Every one has their own beliefs. Learn to respect others and appreciate them for what they believe and you will get the same in return. You cannot demand respect. Respect is earned. You get what you give. You take what you make and you get what you give. Don't sit there and go "no, you are wrong. That's fake. You can't do that. Do it how I tell you." Instead be more respectful in such a way as for example "I appreciate you're sharing your belief. This is my belief and why I believe it....." this holds ground for a better community. A better learning experience. Respect. A better Spells of Magic.
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Re: My opinion on this site
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Post # 7
I still hate people who fill others with their lies and get their hopes up about things being real maybe if more people would stop I'd be nicer to them
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Re: My opinion on this site
By: / Knowledgeable
Post # 8
Like I said, I'm not going to argue about it. I gave good ways you can help in the matter without you making or worse and you refuse to do the right thing. So you have fun with what you do tanner.
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Re: My opinion on this site
By: / Novice
Post # 9
I've never, nor will I ever, judge someone by their beliefs. If you believe yourself to be a werewolf, vampire, etc. then so be it. Its only when someone asks for a spell to become one, or says they're all powerful and disrespects me or someone else, is when I correct them. I believe they're all out there, but I know magick cannot change yourself into one. To be honest, I love listening to proof, ways of life, and beliefs of people such as yourself. As long as you're respectful to us, I'm respectful of you. I really hate the word "fluffy" but its used quite often, even by me sometimes. Yeah, when you say you're a vampire who knows everything and calls me a fool, I call you a fluff. I'm not proud of saying it, but by definition that's what a fluff is.

Point is: I'm open minded, but I will ask questions and try and be logical.
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Re: My opinion on this site
By: / Beginner
Post # 10
Amber,my hat down !
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