hi, i am newbie of this site. my problem is my gf is always fighting with me whenever i get jealous of her and her "bisexual friend " who admitted that love her. the friend named Dianelle, my girlfriend name Roxan, they always getting along with, even at my gf's house. i don't understand why she is very angry everytime i ask about them. the thing that makes me paranoid is, she keeps lying to me when she going out with diannelle, and if she let me know, she can't even answer her phone call or even message me. so that's always starts our fight.
pls, can anybody help me with this? i want them separate. i want my gf back to me. i love her so much that i even make long distance call to USA from Philippines and spend all of my money for the call.
There are people interested in a connection that is deeper than a moment. I do not attempt to marginalize any pain you feel, but you have to want to learn from every situation. I returned from my first deployment to a wife who had been cheating for months. My daughter was born during the deployment and I was coming home to meet her, and to find out that I would never get to be a father to her in the way that I wanted. This tells me that love has to be given in equal portions by both involved; I have it tattooed over my heart.
My face in thine eye, thine in mine appears,
And true plain hearts do in the faces rest;
Where can we find two better hemispheres,
Without sharp north, without declining west?
Whatever dies, was not mixed equally;
If our two loves be one, or, thou and I
Love so alike, that none do slacken, none can die.
Glen, here's part of the thing: Trust is so integral to relationships that one person's lack of trust can destroy the other's trust on the one. If you can't trust that she will remain faithful, and you are constantly jealous, she will quite possibly take your mistrust to the extent that she cannot trust you to be rational if she as much as interacts with her friend.
If her behavior makes her fidelity very much questionable, that may be an aspect to seriously consider with your relationship -- no matter how much you love her.
