IngredientsA pink or white candleSomething to inscribe a symbol on the candle Nice paper and a pen An envelope Materials to make a small, thoughtful gift that your friend would appreciate DescriptionIf you and a friend have had a bad fight, use this spell to ease tensions and help you set things right.
Spell CastingCarve a symbol for friendship on the candle. It could be a picture of two clasped hands, a heart, an appropriate rune, etc.; or you can carve a symbol for peace, like a dove, to help ease tensions. Invoke a deity (perhaps your patron/matron deity) to bless your rite. If you dont invoke a deity, you can appeal instead to the general powers or forces that be. Meditate or breathe deeply for awhile to center and focus yourself. Then gaze at the candle flame and address your invoked deity (or general forces) and say:"A friend and I have had a fight I need some help to make things right I truly want to stay good friends So help me, then, to make amends" Draw the symbol you carved on the candle at the top of the paper. Then write down what you feel: what youre sorry for, what youd like to have happen, how you feel about your friend, why youd like to remain friends, etc. Sign your name at the bottom of the paper. Then take the materials to make your gift and put it together. As you begin, say: "I make this gift with love and care In hopes that it will help repair The damage done, the hurt and pain And help our friendship to remain" Pour love and compassion into the gift as you make it. Visualize it glowing with a soft, peaceful, loving light. When youre done, place the gift as well as the paper inside the envelope. Seal the envelope with wax from the candle. Gaze at the candle for a little while and visualize your fight coming to an end or your friendship returning to an undamaged state. Think of having a conversation with your friend and imagine everything going well and the fight being resolved. When youre ready, give thanks and close your circle. When you next see your friend, give him/her the envelope. Have a sincere conversation and do your best to heal the friendship. Magic spells for everyone, anytime, any occasion.
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