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I posted about finding a spell to get my ex back and got some replies which made me think i don't want to force him. I love the kid to much to force him and everything like that. I need help getting over the heartbreak. I've tried getting rid of everything. Tried seeing new people. And tried focusing on work and school and other things. But its at night when im asleep he comes back into my dreams and its either a nightmare where he's strangling the life out of me with his hands around my neck. Or it's perfect and he never cheated on me or anything bad happened and we're perfectly happy and in love like we were. Or other dreams about him. Which just cause my heart to break more from missing him and loving him. I need to get over the heartbreak and hopefully get rid of the dreams of him. These dreams are taking a very large toll on me as stupid as it may seem. I need some help. Any spells or ideas of anything?