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Can somebody please explain? I am divorcing and the decision is not mine. So I have had 3/4 tarrot readers to ask questions about the divorce outcome (custody, when it's going to be finalized and all that). Now I've talked a psychic who is also a spell caster and told me that things can change with a love spell, which means there will be no divorce, and she is very positive about it when reading the compatibility chart of me and my husband. So I am confused. I thought destiny is destiny, how can you change your destiny? The other psychics meant divorce is my destiny, the spell casting psychic meant there are different possibilities. Please explain.