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I am looking for a very particular spell.

A friend of mine is in a relationship she wants out of. Not because the guy she is with is inherently bad or mean or anything, but that she now knows she is badly mismatched in many respects.
She has tried in the past to "escape" but each time he hints at suicide, or "coincidently" has an "accident" and hurts himself, and uses that to keep her around. I'm not accusing him of anything, but...
She cares about him, and wants him to go in peace, and be with who-ever he is meant to be with, and be happy, but he refuses to even discuss it.
OK, now for the spell type I need, something to make it his decision to leave, and to do so in a way that will leave them both able to move forward peacefully, to where they both are meant to be.
Also, while I appreciate the cautions, and I respect the views of others in regards to this, is it too much to ask not to be preached at? I understand some have very strong feelings against this sort of spellwork, but I'm trying to help a close friend, and do it in a way that no one gets hurt.
Thank you in advance for any assistance.