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ok here the thing. Lately ive been getting visit from a spirit, who i am pretty sure its my grandpa. The only reason i say that is because only he would bother me at 3 am. while there is not doubt in my heart that i love my grandpa, and would do almost anything to see him one more time. we were close, We spent summers together watching buffy, and he showed me a channel called shimmy. about i think a year and some months now, he died. He showed me his death in a dream. which got confirmed 3 minutes after I woke up, from mom saying. grandpa died and all i said was " i know" but getting to the point. this is the 5th time he's wandered into my room,while i attempt to study. ive tried smudging, ive tried having that discourages spirits to appear. i have tried talking to him telling him to move on. I do know how to the lesser banishing ritual of the pentagram. other wise known as LSBR, but i hesitate because its my grandpa and i feel guilty for not being there for his actually death. i view the LSBR as the equivalent of a napalm blast. i dont want to actually per-say harm him. if that makes sense. so im stuck between a rock and a hard place. do i do the equivlent of a napalm blast or do i just live with him walking into my room at 3 am.