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Alrighty so, lately I have been doing a lot of research on gods and goddesses and such and I read somewhere that researching a bunch could help find a patron/matron if one pops out at you.
My problem is, Aphrodite and Artemis both stood out for some reason. Which is strange because neither of them have anything to do with my possible element, fire. Also, I kinda don't like Aphrodite. Not in her myths at least. Then for my god, Poseidon poped out. But again, nothing to do with fire although I am drawn to dolphins. Basically, my question is, what do you think is going on here? I was almost sure my element is fire but these deities are saying otherwise. And why two goddesses, including one I don't particularly like?