Magic Forums

Hey everyone I am new to this website and wicca. I have been trying to discover my God and Goddess. I read about the Goddess Hecate (sometimes spelled Hekate). The very same day that I watched a documentary about how if that's ur goddess she will either come to u or send u a sign through one of her sacred animals or symbols, I received a package from a family member with a torch on it. I know this is more likely a coincidence, but then I have been thinking about her constantly and I can't stop. I feel such a deep connection to her, but have received no solid sign or dream. I want to know if I'm just fascinated with her or if she is in fact my goddess. Do I call on her or leave her an offering. If so what? What kind of offering? I also was told that since I fall under the air element then I can only worship a God or goddess labelled under that category. And I really love Arianrhod. How do I know who to choose or how they will come to choose me? Help