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First -- Ive been doing love and defense spells for the longest amount of time. I used to do the, everyday and attempt to write my own. Then I watched my friend with Earth elements and i really wanna try it. How do I know what element I am?

Second -- I feel... Something... In my room. A presence. I live right by a cemetary so i know where it most likly came from but im still scared. Im not sure to harm it or cast protection spells to get it away. It doesnt seem to have an intention on harming me but im still nervous. What do i do?