Breakups and Revenge

Revenge Your Ex

Each day hundreds of men and women seek revenge on their ex-mates for a
variety of reasons, usually because they got dumped or where cheated on.
Revenge comes in many ways. It typically starts by using social media to
vent, and then escalates from there. Now sites like "Get Revenge On Your Ex"
for a fee will help you get pay back or revenge.

So what is the best way to get revenge besides slashing her tires, posting
nude photos of her and so on.

The best way according to the web site Right Choices 101 is to live your
life well. This is true no matter who you are seeking revenge on. Coworkers,
past bosses, bad friends or ex-lovers. Put your energy into succeeding and
enjoying your life, not wasting your time, energy and resources on revenge
that can end up costing you much more. Plus, when you seek revenge, you send
them a massage that you have not gotten over the relationship. It's much
better to show you are indifferent and don't care.

According to Kenneth Agee of A Foreign Affair, a service that specializes in
helping men find young beautiful foreign women, "The best revenge is to date
or marry a women 10 years younger than your ex. This will piss her off to no
end. No woman ever wants to be replaced with a younger, more attractive
woman. Just like a man never likes to get replaced by a guy who is wealthier
or more successful.

I will never forget one of my first clients we took to Saint Petersburg,
Russia." says Agee, "The client told me that two days on our tour was better
than two years of therapy. Having hundreds of attractive women fighting over
you gets your ex out of your mind pretty quick.

I personally went through break up when my ex ran off with another man. But
a short time later, I met a new lady who was ten times better. I ran into
that man who stole my ex and I gave him a big thanks. In fact, I could not
thank him enough. He was stuck with an older nagging women, while I was now
with a young, beautiful, caring women. Plus, my ex had gained about 100
pounds. I don't look at that fellow as any kind of enemy but as the person
who saved me from my ex and years of suffering." This is the best a revenge
when you win without lowering yourself.

Other sites like "Get Over Her Now" give practical advice and tips for
getting over a past relationship.

Top Tips from Get Over Her Now:

Start making platonic relationships with as many women as possible, old,
young, skinny, fat, cute or ugly. This greatly helps you get back in the
game of socializing with the opposite sex. And it opens up lots
opportunities to meet their cute attractive friends in a more relaxed
environment. This also helps you build your game and confidence.

Improve yourself, start working out, get up early every day and exercise.

Buy new clothes. Dressing better makes you feel better and improves your
confidence.

Focus on work and getting a promotion or raise. Don't let a break up effect
your work negatively. Put that extra effort into work and it will pay off
with a better position and more money. This will also build your confidence
and help attract better quality women.

Any time you are depressed, improving yourself helps greatly. When you feel
depressed, don't sit and watch TV and then sleep-in late. Get out and do
something that will make you feel like you've accomplished something. Take a
class, go hiking, fix something you've been putting off.

Don't start drinking. Drinking will always have a negative impact on your
life. Don't drink while depressed or when you are trying to get over some
one. After all, drinking is for celebrating. So if you are not celebrating
something, don't drink. A quality women is not going to be attracted to
someone who drinks a lot or has a drinking problem.

Don't sleep in; sleeping late increases depression. Get up as early as you
can and go for a walk, take a hike, or go to the Gym. Research shows getting
up early and exercising can eliminate depression. You will have no game be
depressed.

Don't binge eat. If you start gaining weight, you will feel less self-worth
and lose your confidence. Confidence is a quality that women are extremely
attracted to.

Conclusion, the best revenge is when you improve your life so well that she
realizes she made a big mistake. And satisfaction comes when you meet
someone so much better, you are glad the ex is gone. After all, if you are
seeking revenge, how great could she really have been in the first place!

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This thread has been moved to Misc Topics from Site Spells Discussion.

I came to this thread ready to rant and berate you for wanting to get revenge, expecting you to ask for spells to hurt her and whatnot (this really says a lot about me XD ) but was genuinely surprised when it turned out to be a very positive read.

The best revenge to get on someone IS to focus on living well and succeeding. Thanks for posting this. I'm sure this can help many people who are thinking about getting revenge. :)

Find a woman ten years younger than your ex-girlfriend. (So if she is 24 years old, I should be looking for a 14 year old girl, get to know her, date her and from there build a relationship out of it? Is that it?) Sounds fun! But if you look at it from a different perspective, it is so wrong. It may just be an idea though it does not guarantee that you will be satisfied of the results moving forward. For the moment it will definitely place a weight on the opposite sex who has cheated. (Satisfaction Guaranteed there!) But do you think that by making this rush decision of moving to the next person, will save you from history repeating itself? It is still a possibility. During these times, I will say, it will be safer not to isolate oneself as you will call it, and be with the company of friends and proceed with your career as if nothing happened. That is the best revenge anyone can do for there are no chains in this world that can chain down other people. (Even Human Emotion) Everyone has the right to decide on their own where they must be.

"No woman ever wants to be replaced by a younger woman, and no man wants to be replaced by a rich man" that may be what you see in most of the movies, but in reality it can be insulting! Most woman will prefer the simple life were things can be afforded and there is a roadmap for this journey and aside from that, there is content or that feeling of belonging or happiness. (It will be difficult for them to find a rich guy who is an exception to how real life rich people are) And there are cases that the woman will want to enjoy the liberty of being free than in a relationship after everything that has happened. For men, I will say are the same. But instead of younger woman, what ex-girlfriends will be pissed off the most will be those with style and fresh characteristic that will make other men jealous, especially if the woman is someone who can overpower you. ( :D This is actually my preference) But it all goes down to the people's preference.

There is nothing wrong about looking in the past of what you had with your ex, it only points out how you valued the relationship that you had even though things went for the worst but as they say, everything else and everybody moves forward. If there can be nothing between the two of you, it will be best to move forward else you will miss out on a lot of things. (Even a Promotion at work)

To sum it up: Not all people are ready to move on into a relationship instantly after a breakup or cheating. They may say they are but in reality most people do that just to keep their mind away from their ex. Stop using people to find yourselves and happiness! If it isn't real, you will only hurt them and yourself at the end. Which is something to be depressed about as well.