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Get rid of his ex
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Post # 1
I would like some help looking for a spell to make my boyfriends ex go away. I met this guy over a month ago, and we really click. Everyday we discover more and more we have in common, and it feels like nothing I've ever experienced in my 32 years of life. I spoke with a psychic, and she told me that the energy between the two of us floats above us, meaning we agreed to meet before we were born, and that our path is a path of romantic love.

But his ex still calls and texts him all the time. She wants to get back together with him, and he tells her no but she's persistent. Last night felt like the LAST STRAW for me. She's insistent that they are going to get back together, and she even insulted me, saying I'm "too old" for him. He was upset last night. Angry, even. The first time she did this, he tried to leave me like she wanted, but he came immediately back.

I feel like he and I are building a machine together, representing our relationship. And here she is, just throwing wrenches into the gears, and I can't do anything to stop her! I try to make him understand, but he continues to talk to her. He says if he doesn't answer her phone calls, she just becomes more annoying. They psychic DID tell me she will go away eventually, and that he is going to set stronger boundaries, but I can't take this. Can't I do anything?! I do NOT want to be that girlfriend that forbids her man from being friends with his ex, but this isn't okay. I don't think he truly understands how much this is hurting me.

I don't want to cause her harm. I just want her to back off. I already tried a little trick I found on Pinterest, where I write her name on a piece of paper and freeze it in water to "freeze her actions." It seemed to work for a while! But she's back. Any suggestions would be MUCH appreciated.
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Re: Get rid of his ex
By: Moderator / Novice
Post # 2

At this point, there's not a whole lot that spells can do. If you've tried things magic-wise, and she keeps coming back, it's more of a mundane thing to deal with now. If your boyfriend has a smart phone, there are options to block a phone number from calling or texting you. Hopefully, that will solve the issue. But if she returns with a different number, and shows you that she really is crazy, I would push legal matters against her. Like having your boyfriend getting a restraining order against the person.

Secondly, why did he go back to her in the first place? Does he still have feelings for her, or was it out of the pressure that she was constantly giving him? These are things that you should sit down and have a serious talk about. He won't know that it is hurting you unless you say something about it. Communication is #1 in in a relationship.

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Re: Get rid of his ex
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Post # 3
They broke up only a few months before he met me. So I understand that he still has some feelings for her, and that he was very much in love with her. He's still healing from the break up, and honestly, had I known he'd only broken up with her such a short time ago, I would have slowed down the relationship progressing a bit. But here we are.

I think it was the pressure she was putting on him. But also how he still has those feelings... but he realizes that they have nothing in common, they fight a lot, and that she plays head games with him. I've been nothing but a source of positivity in his life, and support. He's cried on my shoulder a few times about his heartbreak, and last night when I told him I worry he's going to try and leave me again, he swore it's not going to happen.

I am doing my best to talk to him about it, it's just hard... I feel like talking about his ex is part of his healing process. But at the same time, it hurts to hear about her. It hurts that he talks to her at all. I HATE that I want him to cut off communications completely, and I feel like I have no right in asking him to do so. I would be SUPER upset if he wanted me to cut ties with my best friend (someone I used to be in love with years ago), but it doesn't feel the same...

And no, he doesn't have a smart phone. The one bummer thing is that he wants to talk to her... he doesn't want to lose her because she once meant so much to him *sigh*
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Re: Get rid of his ex
By: Moderator / Novice
Post # 4

Well, I'm going to be completely honest here. If he wants to have a relationship with you, he's going to have to cut ties with her all together. It's also not going to be a very good dealio if he still has feelings for her. Pain is apart of the healing process. Just because you avoid a topic to talk about, or a situation in general, doesn't mean that it's going to go away. You have to face it, swallow it whole, and purge it forever.

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Re: Get rid of his ex
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Post # 5
It sounds like maybe you should get counseling help, or as stated above, think about legal matters. Communication is always key thats true.
Maybe, if you can, set aside or fake your feelings toward her and talk to his ex. Get her point of view. And maybe you can even convince her to let him go yourself.
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Re: Get rid of his ex
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Post # 6
I appreciate honesty. Thank you, guys. The catch is, he doesn't want her to go away. He wants to be friends with her. And I want her to go away! If she wasn't trying to steal him away from me, I wouldn't mind if they were friends. But her behavior is unacceptable. I wish he could see that too.

Side note. I wish all the people contacting me saying they know some powerful so-and-so who can cast spells for me would drop off the side of the earth -.-
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Re: Get rid of his ex
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Post # 7
Haha, yeah, those types of people mailing you are best avoided.

My stepdad told me a story once of his girlfriends much similar behavior when he had met my mom. After my parents had had their long talk, he went back to tell his ex off, since they were about to get married. In twlling me this story hes given me one of the best pieces of relationship advice i've ever gotten.
"If the reason for breaking up then was a valid reason, then that same reason for breaking up is just as valid now."
Its also usually a bad idea to stay friends with an ex of any sort. There are exceptions, but if she is insistant, then its best to not let her continue trying to ruin your relationship. Hopefully he will see the value in yours soon instead of the "would have could have should have" beens with his past.
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Re: Get rid of his ex
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Post # 8
I think the root of the problem is they still have feeling not romantic mind you but feelings. I hate suggesting this cause it is a bad alternative I think taking away a person's free will, but I know runas you can cast to "cool" their emotion they will be distant and aloof acting as stranger to each other. Think of it as the opposite of fiery passion.
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