Hello, first, I am Brazilian and I speak little English, so forgive me for the mistakes. Well, I live from small spiritual and energetic experiences, which they inherited, situations that my great-grandmother, grandmother and mother passed .. and everyone in my family have strong spiritual powers, but no one followed the paths and sought to deepen. I feel the need to help them, evolve them, but I have no idea where to start to learn to use my powers, and I'm sad about it because I'm afraid to end up like them, simply ignoring the facts. I really wanted someone who could help me to study and develop myself, for good and just.
I think you should acknowledge that you have those abilities for now and start off from there try to build it one by one. Unfortunately its your relatives choice if they choose to ignore it. Maybe its for a reason....maybe not. But first off just take it step by step.