I have a tense relationship with one of my good friends... To the point where it gets dysfunctional at times. Its been rough since March, where she lashed out at me during an argument. Actually its been rough for about 2 years on and off and since May she's been avoiding me. I care a lot about this friendship since she's currently the only friend in person I've known the longest and we've both helped each other and been by each others sides thru the good and bad times. I wanna try doing a sweeting/forgiveness spell but I'm not sure if I would get bad karma for this even without her permission. Though I did hear that it didn't apply if you were trying to get someone to be sweeter to you.
Even though you are doing something without asking them first, I doubt you would get bad repercussions from doing something like a honey jar spell. I would suggest trying to talk with her about what is going on first. Sometimes all it takes is a "hey things seem off and I do not want to lose you as a friend". :)
Thanks. I have been trying to message her; trying to make amends and apologizing the best I can, but she's that upset she just has been ignoring me. :/
That's why I thought of doing the spell as a last resort