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:)) no problem, we all were newbies here at one point! So if you want to mail someone, you enter their profile. When you look at their profile picture, above it you'll see there is "Profile", "Pictures", "Mail" etc.( don't know the exact order). You press mail and then you fill in the Subject. After you write the mail, at the bottom you'll notice the Send Text button. Press that. This is how you send mails. Now, when that person replies, to read what they have written to you: You have the search bar at the top of the page. Right under it and above the chat you have 3 buttons: Profile, Mail, Sign out. When the Mail button is read, it means you have new messages. Click Mail then click the message. If you want to reply, you have a texting space right under that person's message. Hope I was as clear as I could:)

Thanks green love. *smiles* that really helps.