First, understand how all magic works. Spells, rituals, charms, prayers, anything spiritual works in conjunction with the physical world. No miracles are performed. So, talk with the friend you are trying to help. Find a way to get her out of the situation. If she does not want to help herself, it's harder. Stay patient, persevere, call the law, do something beyond a few spells and prayers.
Now, I will give a few ideas for how to go about the spell with the ingredients listed. No, I did not perform them, however, I have performed similar works. I know bottles were not listed, but I'm sure you have an empty jar of pickles, cheese, something. If not, I'm sure you use canned items.
To cut/Banish/Remove/Hotfoot someone out of your their life, take a piece of paper, write out the full name of the target, put it in some of the hotsauce. Tell the hotsauce to set a fire to them. Shake it, go into trance, do whatever, just put some time into the work saying "go away." Psalm 109 is the typical cursing Psalm. Do not let the jar sit there, work it daily, every other day, or whenever you have time. (The Black Toad by Gemma Gary). To dispose, throw it over their house, or throw it into a river going down stream.
For the friend you are trying to help, put the name/photo/dirt from their house and put this in a jar, can, pouch, envelope, or another container with basil, sage, and garlic. Tell the basil to bring peace to her life, tell the sage to cover her in protection, tell the garlic to cover her in a fiery wall of protection. Pray Psalm 91 into the working, do the same trance, meditation, prayers, whatever just spend time with the work. You could burn this into a triangle set up with the two white candles and one blue candle. (Hoodoo Herb and Root Magic by Cat Yronwode) Keep working the spell daily, every other day, when you have time. Do not let it sit there. When the time comes for disposal, bury this in the front of the target's house, porch, plant, or give it to them if they asked for it.
While not from the books, these works are general. The herb correspondences are from the book, the use of the Psalm is from The Black Toad.
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I hope this helped. Just remember, spirituality supplements, it does not replace.