Ok, so I jumped the gun and did a spell on a man that I felt pulling away from me. I thought the spell would bind him to me. Of course, I have now learned that I was trying to influence his free will and that's a huge no-no. I have learned that by even trying to cast this spell, I have suffered the law of three (lost him, lost a job, lost money).
The spell was pretty basic. Drew a heart, wrote our names in it, held a rose quartz and infused the folded paper with the love from the stone, burnt the paper and sent the ashes in the wind.
I understand that I have done wrong. I am looking for how to clear this spell and break the onslaught of negativity.
To be honest, I do still want this man to come back to me but realize that it must be on his own free will. If his future doesn't include me, I do send him nothing but love and positivity for a very loving and safe life.