It's his entire family even his mom! I've gotten to the point that I hate going to see his family even at funerals they use it for an excuse to drink. His cousin just got out of rehab for like the 15th time n when I asked if she was gonna at least try to stay clean she told me no then she turns around and hands my husband a bottle of vodka. I'm just to the point after 18yrs of marriage to call it quits. I love him very much but I'm not willing to sit by and watch him kill himself. Thanks to everyone for your suggestions n I'll be sure to try them first.
Tell your husband of your fear of watching him die. Give him the talk that my mom gave my dad, Me or the bottle. Tell him you will help in any way you can. Alanon (spelling not right) is a help group to help those who are dealing with alcoholics. That would be you, and you might get better suggestions from them. Meanwhile, and I know this is hard, realize that you can't help anyone who won't help themselves. Give him reason to want that help. Love is powerful. I hope it is his for you that will help him get the help he needs.
Try health spells and some moon water. Talk to a doctor or a professional for advice and help. Tell your husband how you feel, try getting rid of the source (family) and try communicating to his family. try replacing alcohol with gum,mints,lasagnes,herbal tea, mint leaves.
I recently discovered the witches ladders and you can make one to stop bad habits and give it to him as a necklace or something, I made one for bad habits and so far it works like a charm, in the articles or spells page on this site search for witches ladder and it will tell you everything. Good luck I hope I helped and I really hope he gets better, I know alot of people who are alcoholics and ot is hard on everyone so I can see where you are coming from, blessed be.
Also just talking to him about it and your fears and concerns about it is also a good way to go, communication in a relationship is the best thing there could be in my opinion.
I just want to say thanks to everyone who's read this and trying to help me. I've already tryed to get him to see his doctor about getting him some help but he won't, so that kinda leave it up to me to try and find other ways to help him also I've seen SO many people go to rehab only to get out and keep doing the same things they were put there for. For example his cousin is addicted to drugs and she has been to rehab 5 times now and she's been to prison once but she's still a druggy. I can't give up on him because then I would be hurting our grandchildren more than it would hurt anyone. Thanks for reading and for trying to help me. Blessed be
DEar Elvira, I read all the comments, all of them recommending rehab and drug treatment, however you are asking some kind of spell or herbal remedy. I can give you a spell which will keep your husband family away from your house and your family. Also other spell is make your husband not to like alcohol any more.
This spells to take effect you need to be strong and determine also follow description precisely.However before I write this spells I need permission of Lark to continue. Spells I will write have been practiced by many people and they all achieved positive out come.
Having your grandchildren seeing him drink and become drunk will do more harm than you think. He has to want this, as you cannot do it for him. You can stand by him, help where you can, but it is he who needs to want it, do it, and ultimately succeed with this ongoing battle. I'm so sorry.
