I am a very busy mom, but i can enlighten you On basics.
When You start a spell, Never doubt your words.
Words are the strongest thing You carry.
You always want to create Your Own spells. Something Heartfelt.
Always have Gratitude. Even Before you have.
If you use other spells that are not yours. Change it to fit your Tongue and Idea. write it out for yourself. to fit what you are seeking.
Feel free to ask Questions. I can Give you As much guidance as I can.