My friend M* is close friends with this guy. An he takes advantage of her kindness and treats her horribly. He's always pointing out her flaws and embarrassing her in front of others. he calls her "his (female dog)". I've been getting so angry because she's always sad because of him but keeps going back to him. I really want to hurt him and do spells on him.. But I know I probably shouldn't..
It's a matter of personal opinion, it is up to you what you do. My thoughts on the matter is that unless he is forcing your friend to be with him, it her fault entirely that she allows herself to be treated that way.
Perhaps talk to your friend and tell her she deserves to be respected and needs to value herself more highly. Or keep out and allow things to run their course.
I wouldn't use magic in such instances, it is not my business and I have not been asked for help. I believe magic starts with the individual, if they want change, they must first act on it.
Re: Should I interfere?
By: Tadashi / Beginner Mar 03, 2015
Post # 3
You should do some reflection on this to come up with your answer. I had a friend in a similar situation, myself as well as other friends brought up our concerns her boyfriend was verbally/emotionally abusive and she deserved better. Unfortunately that's about all you can do, if your friends can talk to M* and hope for the best. You might wish to harm the guy, via a spell or otherwise, but you will get hurt in the process. If you decide it's best for your friend you could try banishing this man, but it's not wise. While he's beaten your friend down, sending him away still leaves M* in a broken state, and now she's heartbroken. As a result, she could try to win him back, or finds someone worse. It's best to be there and try to build her up. Good luck.
I agree with Hadit.93. Why don't you try to make your friend understand her faults and dissuade her from the relationship instead of using magic. If you use magic, it will hit right back at you. Try the risk-free way first.
Blessed be :)
The Wiccan Rede says whatever you send out, comes back three times over. I know that, but I can't stand to see her hurt... I've tried talking to her about it but she's blind to it.. I guess I should just give up
Re: Should I interfere?
By: Ere_Nexus Mar 04, 2015
Post # 7
I would start with standing up for her or at least saying something to him. If that does not work fire away. Sticking a charged opal in his belongongs isa nice start, and will simply return his nasty energy right back onto him :D