Get out of a marriage

You are a man. It's easy. Just walk out!

I appreciate your candor and although I can not argue with your logic I believe you have missed the point of my query as I want no altercations and believe me even with a restraining order she can and will cause havoc in my life. No worries though I will just soldier on and find my own way as I have done throughout my entire life. Hope you have a great day!

No spells to help but. I strongly suggest that you get a divorce lawyer if things are that sticky and you are actually concerned about violence.

I know from the outside it looks easy to just walk out but it is not as easy as you might think. She has entangled herself deeply into my life to the point where she could easily cause major disruptions for me if she so chooses in recourse for me walking out. Thanks though for your thoughts. Hope you have a great day!

Well we gave you our advice. This is what happens when you ask for people's advice/opinions. It may not be what you want to hear, but it is more logical.

And I thank you all for your advice. It is greatly appreciated. Please do not think that I am upset with any of your answers. Thank you all for taking the time to respond at all. I hope that one day I can help one of you with a post that you put out in the forums. Keep on being the wonderful people that you are.

pack your stuff when she is not there, if she is always home send her on errands.

This thread has been moved to Spell Suggestions from General Info.

Well magickally there's banishings, but I would go the straightforward route and talk to her. I would also try working things out. Speak with a couples councillor so whatever the outcome you have a third party to mediate. If things go south, retraining order. Magickally the banishing but a protection too. It won't cause her to fly away from you if she gets too close, but she should feel uncomfortable and wish to leave. Regarding the controlling ex thing, tell her to take a hike. [Granted it's easier if you don't have kids or something but there's ways around it like an aunt/uncle picking them up when they visit you/her]

Perhaps you can do a banishing spell, though I doubt it'll help. Just talk to her. The banishing spell would work better if she is already out of your life. Casting a banish spell while you are still married and living in the same home would be stupid. Like I said, talk to her, you have rights.