I wanted to know if celebrating it xmas style is ok? I have to do it that way cuz thats what the rest of my family celebrates (even though most of them are agnostic). If there's a certain other way i have to, how can i squeeze it in? My family respects my beliefs but does not share them.
Read about Yule traditions and you will discover they share a lot in common with Christmas. You can do something personal on the solstice [Like greet the sun with a sunrise circle] but you can still celebrate Christmas. If your family is ok with your faith ask if you could include a traditional dish for the Christmas dinner.