Learn the basic's first, spells aren't magical and you can't just say a spell, and expect it to work. Spells take time, some take a day, a week, or even a month.
There aren't any ''instant'' spells that work automatically. In my opinion, magic comes from within, not just from a spell. Some people don't use spells, and actually light just candles, a chant, or ask on a certain day. Spells aren't a toy, there not just something we can play with.
Start with the basic's, they will help. Spells shouldn't be attempted without even remotely knowing what you doing!