You seem to do magick known as ''fluff''
Now flash back to reality, your spells are not working because it's fantasy! Fantasy is stating yor say a fairy, or vampire. There is an accomadation between belief, and fluff. Your leaning more onto the fluffy side, which on SoM is usually not tolerated.
I'm not trying to be rude, but there are basic's to casting. Try actually learning true hard core facts. For more join a proper coven, and check faqs, including magick articles on spells. You will find why people call this fluff, or fantasy..it's physically impossible to do.