I cannot speak for other paths, but I do not see the use of magic as some random thing with one-size-fits-all spells, casting fishing lines into dark waters in the hopes that you catch something?
Who are you?
Who is this person?
What is your relationship with them?
Why do you want them to think of you? And how?
Why do you think they're not already thinking of you?
What have you done up to this point, and what were the results?