@ fenrir, while i don't believe in true love as it is presented in society, he could be. as humans, we crave certain things out of life, being denied something will cause us to seek it from somewhere else. i know people who have broken up and gotten together again after many years, or people who function better in open relationships. theres also many psychological reasons why people [men especially] cheat. he could love her, but is following attraction and lust. he might still love her, he might not, you don't know.
aradia, there are spells you can use to get him back, but i recommend first looking within yourself. you may still love him, but if he was miserable [for example] is it right to force him to stay to make yourself happy? try couple counselling, ask him to go to a couple sessions to see if anything can be worked out. if not, then part ways, but be civil about, for everyones sake. life is full of meetings and partings. i had a pretty major heartbreak 5 years ago which was a blessing in disguise, not only was it a bad relationship, but the same day i was asked out by my current boyfriend [we didn't actually go out until several months later, but still] try your best, but if something is over, you should not and cannot fight it, it isn't good for anyone involved.
do a divination to see if theres something left. if he still cares, try a banishing spell on her, and a love spell on him [say a honey jar] then ask him to do couples counselling. good luck, blessed be.
I still have believe I what the guy said about a native man from west Africa,I remember when I was having problem with my husband, just because the doctors in UK said I can conceieve a child again,my husband cheated on me and abandoned me. I post my problem on this forum and someone refer me to a native spiritual doctor who solved my problem instantly and told me that it was a spiritual attack and did not even charge me a dime. He told me nothing is impossible for his oracle.. my husband are I are reunited and also having a kid now.