Perhaps not a spell, but you can make your birthday celebration like a ritual (rites of passage, togetherness with those you celebrate it with, making a resolution, etc.).
My birthday was three days ago and I always make a habit of noting the time I was born and made it so that when that time of day came, I was doing something that would symbolize my resolution of how my year would go about (it was cleansing this year). Any New Year type celebration is something you could adapt to your birthday.
Make it personal. Write a list of colors, songs, items, and themes that are associated with you and use those. People do this for spirits and deities, so it's not too far out to do the same for your birthday. Why not? :>