When you cast a break-up spell, either or both of the partners may start arguing about so little topics. However, they are cast generally and not on a special person.
But if you aim at one single person, you can try something else beside the vinegar jar spell. Voodoo dolls are my favorite helpers when I aim at one person.
You can make a doll of that person, add some personal objects (such as their hair, nails, pieces of dress, pic, etc) then, you can charge the doll up with your energy and in other words, "make it spiritually alive" so that it can direct the energy into that person.
You can do many things with the doll. Mess with its head with a needle or burn its head. Even talking to it can have some effects. When you're done, you can either burn the doll or bury it. If you wish though, you can put it somewhere safe.
For the vinegar jar itself, burn black candles around it, meditate and charge it up, make new jars and put personal things into the mix.
I know and thank u for your response! I asked about it because i know i somewhere read a couple of days ago that you actually can make a jar to make someone angry, bitter or just plain unbearable to be around! It's for my x's new girlfriend, i didn't want to hurt him AT ALL in this process, but just make her unbearable and then seperate them that way, because I know already that she can be a hot mess at times, and i want to enhace that!
To be honest I haven't used jars in my spells but using something bitter or sour and adding her personal belongings can be a great help. For example, add sour lemon to the jar with the hair of that person and imagine her getting sour as the lemon. Direct your thoughts at her as thought forms can be pretty strong there.
I did a break up jar. It had a bunch of stuff in it. It hasnt been two.weeks, they broke up, and he's back at home. i thought angry thoughts about their relationship while making it. I used a spell from this site, but improvised on the ingredients and delivery. I shook it everyday, everytime i felt animosity towards them, then i deployed it. About 9days later...he was home. I used other spells too, and i have had results.
The jar i made
Cut up pics of her
Cut up pics of him
A piece of his dirty shirt. (Cut out the armpit)
A court paper with her name.
Burned a black candle on ita few times. Shook it whenever.
Then i took it to a strong river and threw it over my left shoulder. I didnt look back...
Eves, what if the spell you've done breaks. What if as soon as your spell breaks or wears off he leaves you again? Or worse... What if your spell doesn't break, he stays with you but hates every second of being with you? Where does that leave you?
Everything you do, magically and non magically has repercussions. There is an equal and opposite reaction to every action. This is a law. You can't change that.
Think before you make decisions--magical and non magical ones.