oh, well in that case, talk to your parents as well. things this big should not be forced or rushed into. doesn't matter if one party has been dreaming about marriage their whole life, their parents want them to marry, or whatever. the only people who matter in this are the two getting married. historically it was an arrangement with the parents, and whether you liked it or not, you're stuck with the person for life. today this custom is only done by a handful of countries and religious groups, unless you fall into one of those categories, i suggest ignoring your parents.
i'm close with my family, so i know it would be hard [especially if you still live at home] but my sister hates my boyfriend and eventually i told her to either stop putting him down or i would stop talking to her. she still hates him, but at least she doesn't voice her opinions anymore. point is, are you happy? if you are in a healthy relationship, the push and pull of those on the outside shouldn't be the reason to do anything.
meditate, figure out for yourself if this is what you really want. ignore what your parents want, your boyfriend wants, even his parents want and focus on you. what do you want? if you say 'to get married' ask yourself why? the answer should not include your parents, your friends, society, even your boyfriend at this point. this is all about you. perhaps write a list of pro's and con's for marriage. once you have decided for yourself yes or no, then sit your boyfriend down and talk about getting married. once the two of you have come to a decision, tell your parents. [you might want to tell them together] be calm and clear, this is your life, this is you and your boyfriends decision.
if you still desire the spell, look into the spell section, just be careful what you wish for and don't get mad if this ends badly.