well some people are just born with it, or it is a side effect from returning from limbo (the state between life and death), or in some cases it can be passed down by genes, it is not really important, the important thing is what you do with this gift, i have the same and i just help the dead find peace, but what you do is up to you
I used to say the same thing. "WHY ME" about a lot of things. As you get older and the more things you are exposed to the more you will start to "get life" The first time someone who had passed away came to me. I was sitting on my bed, I could hear was "OMG THEY WHERE RIGHT YOU ARE A WITCH" He said this over and over again. I laughed to my self. I question my self over and over again. Is this real no way this is happening! I sat on the edge of my bed no t.v. no outside noises around me. I just listen to what Jimmy had to say. He was shocked that I could hear him. I close to this boy. He was my nieces first boyfriend back in JR. high. I seen him here and there when I went and seen my sister. I could feel that he was very confused/ didn't know what was going on, he became very scared and wanted to know what was next.
I said Jimmy your gone. I don't know what's next, but you'll be okay. I started to cry. I don't cry often. I have a very strong backbone, but I am very empathic.
yea when i did communicate with the grandma i can feel everything of her past like when i started smelling blue berries. i asked her about her about the blueberries and the grandaughter told me there favoirite thing was to make blueberries. it was a special moment