I know most of the members on this forum would advice me to do something else instead but I beg you all please help me get back on my feet. I am being honest to whole of the humanity that I have been betrayed really very bad. I was introduced to this girl last year and she showed me so much love that I couldn't possible make myself love anyone the much I love her. She had a secret a relationship which is seven years old. all this time she carried on seeing the guy while she was with me, and I caught her at his house. She has admitted to sleep with him but she claims to had it done once only.She would be rude to me but wouldn't mind going to his house for several hours a day at least twice a week. Even now they both claim to have no contact with each other but I have got evidence they are still talking and texting all the time. I loved her so much and she has hurt me so bad that I decided to commit suicide and literally did slash my wrist. That guy is quiet older than and about four years older than me too. they playing clever.the said to me giving reference to the god he wouldn't come between us anymore and he is manipulating the girl against me and over arguments made her call the police on me and when I messaged him saying that god will make him suffer he filed another complaint against me. they don't know that i am aware that they are talking and texting. I have done nothing wrong but to love her more than she deserved. she cannot hear a single thing against the guy calling him his best friend dearer than his family but can cuss me during an argument. If the guy suffers she would suffer as well. I am burning with fire and will helplessness goes over the board I cry myself to sleep. Please help me I want them to suffer worse than I did. Please help me I cannot see anything over this. I have been sacked from work as well because of my inattentiveness and it was all caused of this. I have got nothing left and i can see no life ahead. I have nothing but strong intentions and no experience at all. Please help me
Re: Please help me
By: Nekoshema / Novice Jun 21, 2014
Post # 3
sorry if what i say hurts [i'll try to be gentle] i understand you love her, but she does not love you. find inner peace and happiness with yourself, don't define your happiness through this woman. people fall in and out of love all the time, it hurts [for how long depends on the person] you tried fighting for her, but its clear she doesn't wish to be with you at this time. breathe. try to relax, and move on. it sounds harsh and hurtful, but if its meant to be she will return in her own time, you should focus on healing yourself right now.
while fighting for her and trying to get her back is fine, what you did wrong was threaten them with the 'wrath of god'. you spoke out of emotional turmoil, but when emotions get the better of us, bad things can happen, so the law takes things like this seriously. walk away for a time and heal.
magickally you can do a cleansing for yourself to remove the negativity that is weighing on you. meditation, balancing your chakras, and other exercises to bring insight and peace would be best. once you are centered, reflect on her, and if you still want her back, try talking with her one one one [calmly is the key] if she still says no, move on [or look into love spells but thats a bad idea] good luck, blessed be.
I appreciate your advice but my case is bit more complicated. she cried in front of me and begged to be with me when I caught her first and told her I am breaking up with her. She is still there but the guy is there as well. Its affecting my dreams my thoughts my well being my mentality. I want them to realise what damage they have caused me and how it feels when you are in that much pain.
Re: Please help me
By: Star.Child / Novice Jun 21, 2014
Post # 5
Sorry to say that it seems she is playing you both. She gets what she wants from you, then goes to the other guy for the rest. You don't need someone like that. Being used hurts, I know. Its not fair. But don't punish yourself for her actions. Instead, heal yourself, and come out strong. You may find someone better in the process. I wish you well and good health. Get better, for you are great. Be the strong one, you know you can. Blessed Be...
Thank you for replying, I honestly find it real very hard to bear this pain. I just can't let them both get away with this. the other guy is a divorcee and is very well aware of the situation and is equally responsible for my pain.