homophobia?!

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Re: homophobia?!
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The idea I keep having is to create a spell to symbolically open the doors of their minds, or to help unlock what you perceive as the truth in their thoughts. Both can be done fairly easily with names, photographs, and symbol imagery of a door and/or key.
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Re: homophobia?!
By: / Beginner
Post # 5
How about tlking to them openly and tryingto explain them how things works?:) Communication, the strongest spell you'll find!
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Re: homophobia?!
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Post # 6
talking to them would never work, they want me nowhere near their son or house. they wouldnt ever talk to me and escpecially have an open mind.. this issue is starting to affect him too, he is gay and is afraid to let anyone know besides a choice few.. its really starting to eat away at him, but he knows he'll be shunned and outcasted.. i need a spell to make his parents more open minded and make them see what they are doing to their son! we just need help..
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Re: homophobia?!
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Post # 7
You could use an unused blue candle and write a spell yourself (I always read that own spells are the strongest).
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Re: homophobia?!
By: Moderator / Adept
Post # 8
You are still young (16?) so perhaps as you get older your parents will accept your friend. When you are older you can then tell your parents,"This is my friend, and I'm very sorry if you don't approve.I will always love you both, but I love him as well.".But that will only work when you are old enough. To your parents, you will always be "a child".Meanwhile, it maybe better to keep it secret.
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Re: homophobia?!
By: / Novice
Post # 9
Being gay myself I understand how you feel. I want to tell my parents but I know they will not approve.
I would follow byrsings advice, its what I would of said.
Even if they don't approve and seem they may be angry, they will still love you regardless. Parents do.
If you need to talk, feel free to mail me.
Good luck!
Lewis
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Re: homophobia?!
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Post # 10
Get a strain of their hair if at all possable or a picture. Cast your circle and call the cornes. Light a black and white candle. Evoke the spirit and concentrate on what it is your truely want. Burn the hair or the picture. Chant "as above so below let my inner will grow. Down below so above affect their mind with pureist love. As i will so mote it be" concentrat hard and invision a white light around yourself and them and fill that light with feelings of love and aceptance. Wait and see from there...
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Re: homophobia?!
By: / Beginner
Post # 11
It is kind of a choice to be homophobic, so if you cast a spell to make them not homophobic, you are kind of not respecting their decision( free will and everything), so it will be a bit hard. I wouldn't do it, but it's your choice! I think all you have to do is wait and try to be as nice as possible to them, and not blame the parents. It's just the way they were raised.And you are not the one to talk to them, but your boyfriend should, as they are his parents.
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Re: homophobia?!
By: / Novice
Post # 12
Just hitting on this one point, essentially, "We must be tolerant of intolerance" because we're either tolerant or not tolerant and that can be twisted into a paradox.

Nope!

"My rights end where yours begin." One person's right to enjoy life on this planet and another person wishing them away from this planet is not an equal matter of opinion. The former does no harm to the person in the latter, whereas the latter does harm to the one in the former. Jakob was not forcing his boyfriend's parents to also be gay, but his boyfriend's parents were pressuring their son and his boyfriend to be heterosexual. To change their minds through magic isn't a violation of free will, it's a defense of boundaries. It's checking of personal boundaries.

Heterosexism and heteronormativity is a privilege that grants inequal power to heterosexuals that permeates everyday life. Should magic be used to get straight people to check their privilege? I vote yes. Whether it can work is another matter.

(Standard disclaimer applies to reserve your right to your own opinion and wow this topic was started almost 12 months ago?? Why am I posting here. What am I doing.)
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Re: homophobia?!
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Post # 13
Tip: be careful with this kind of thing. You don't want to mess with their free will; otherwise, if you do, it's not real. You can try being confident and calm. You can do a cleansing before talking to them to help rid yourself of negative energies. You could try a spell that could help them to listen to you.
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