I want to perform a love spell. My ex is currently with someone else. I honestly believe he is with her because he is able to put up a facade with her. He has a very deep past that he admitted recently that he still has yet to share with her. That being said, I don't believe they'll last long to begin with but I need help giving him the confidence to come back around to me. Hes quite stubborn in every aspect of his life. I've tried the honey jar but I don't think it's strong enough because of his tenacious personality.
I read somewhere that the love spell won't work if there is no breakup spell done with it. Should I do both? If so, which should I do first?