I just found out my father died in march and i just found out. We weren't the closest but when we last saw each other things started to look different and now he's gone. Is there a way i could say bye to him? I can't go to his grave since his body is in another country.
Re: Saying bye to loved 1
By: serpqueen666 May 12, 2013
Post # 4
On the 10th I buried a very good , too young (26) friend of mine , I'm terribly sorry for your loss , and I don't feel it matters you weren't the closest it your Dad. The easiest way to tell them , I'm finding, is talking to my friend as I think about him ,his son (3), or his family mother especially. Theres soo many other ways , and they are like prayers or like I said if you're not comfortable with that idea just sit meditate and tell him what you need to say, theres always writing it out, especially if your overwhelmed by emotion or other feelings and either discard the note fitting to you ( I use fire as it's my element) but burying would be fine or water (flowing) . When someone dies it's never black and white on our feelings because our feelings with people are soo complex and complicated, but it's o.k., death seems to be harder for those left behind.... I wish you the best of luck and my condolences....
Hi there. Your Father is still here (in spirit) and if you feel you did not say good bye to him, then it's important that you do. There are many ways to say goodbye to a loved one on the other side. choose one that best suits you and your relationship with him. :)