I posted this in my coven and I wanted to share it with everyone on this site. enjoy.
There are a lot of people who ask me about love spells and how to get them to work on this site and I would like to delve into this a little deeper with everyone here. When an individual casts a love spell in order to make a specific person love them the results are usually less then desirable in the short run or long run. There are a couple of reasons for this so I'm going to cover them. One reason for this is because the results solely depend on the individual you cast it on therefor adding an unpredictable element to your spell. You may have the will to influence a person into being with you but ultimately their still the individual that ignored you and found you less then desirable. I have seen it time and time again with relationships that are the result of a love spell. These relationships usually turn out to be codependent leaving both people unhappy and miserable. Also obsession has a big tendency to cloud your judgement thus keeping the magician from approaching this spell in a completely rational and realistic way. Therefor approaching a spell with a mindset like that it's no wonder why these spells have a tendency to be unpredictable and fail in some way or another. Also when you cast love spells or destruction spells on a person the spell usually takes on a life of it's own. When it does this it will be out of your control because its reacting to the individual it's casted on. If you want complete success with your love spell your going to have to change it up in order to get rid of these unpredictable elements. As a magician you want total control of your spells so you can guarantee the results are what you want. Instead of casting a spell on an individual with a big possibility of failure in one way or another make a list of attributes that you would find most attractive in a lover. By doing this it will allow you to approach this type of spell in a different way leaving your mindset unclouded by obsession and getting rid of the possibility of negative blow backs. This will allow your intent and will to flow freely with the energies of creativity during your ritual. You can make this list as specific as you want as long as it's not about an individual you know. Afterwards use your list in your ritual and bring that person to you. The results are not going to be unpredictable because the spell takes life as an idea that is created by you. This gives you complete control over your spell allowing you to will it in the direction you want it to go in. You are the life and drive behind this spell now so ultimately it is up to you to make this work. By doing this you will attract a lover to you that meets all of your desires leaving no room for disappointment.
I completely agree with you - when doing a love spell it is better to cast for the qualities you are attracted to in the person instead of the actual person. There are so many people new to magick asking about love spells and I hope they take this advice to heart. Next time I get a request for a love spell I will send them the link to this post :)
I'm new to this, how do I attract someone using qualities I look for like u have suggested? How do I start it? How does it all work ? can u send me a spell to attract a non specific person with my desired qualities step by step? Thank you!