I am very new to this so I was wanting to know if there is a simple spell that I could place on my boyfriend to help him heal from his past relationship? Is there anything wrong with a spell like that? I don't want to change how he feels about me but I do want him to begin to heal. Would love some input.
Re: healing past love
By: Nekoshema / Novice Feb 08, 2013
Post # 2
well, yes and no depending on your morals. since you're casting over him without knowing, most would say it's wrong. do what you think is best. a very simple one would be light a white, or maybe a pink candle, carve his name on it, but be sure to charge the candle with energy and try to visualize or feel the hurt he feels for his ex disappearing. if you decide not to let the candle burn down completely, be sure to snuff out the candle, don't blow it out. these kinds of spells are best done during the waning moon since you're taking things away. as i said, do what you think is best, meditate on the question if you're unsure, or just ask him.
thanks you! Actually after your post and some other reading, I think I don't need a spell. I am an inexperienced empath. Well I'm experienced at the overwhelming emotions that I absorb from others. I never asked for that. I just don't know how to block it or anything else. He isn't in pain from his past but more has a terrible fear of the future and I think if I can block myself from feeling that fear, I can calmly let him work through it on his own.