I have a son who is four and a daughter who is two... for yhe pas 7 months he's been saying that there is a man on fire in his wall..the other day he took a pen and started stabbing the wall where the man on fire lives... so i gabe him a crystal and told him that it was magic and would protect hom.. well now he says the man shows him the walls crackong with lava and my son talks about death and dying ect ect...and my daughter thinks there os a monster whp growls outside her bedroom window.. my kids do not watch tv bit once a day amd its the leap frog letters and alphabet dvd.. we don't even have cable or anything but in my bedroom where they do not go as i have poisonous plants so my door is always locked... they don't go to daycare or have mich interaction with other kids but some cousins who are from a very very high class who are very very religious and do not talk about thongs like that..... I'm confused as to what is gping on and how to fix this problem
I would monitor the situation. Give your son paper and crayons or colored pencils. Have him draw what he is seeing. Most kids will draw what they see. If the child's behavior becomes dangerous, i.e.- he starts screaming or there is a drastic change in in moods, seek psychiatric help.
With your daughter, reassure her there is nothing there. If this problem persists any more and you don't feel like anything is helping, I would be more than willing to do an Insight for you.
Insight, is a ritual in which i enter into a persons presence and view what energies are flowing in and out of the person. and what energies are flowing in and out of the persons surroundings.
i agree with both Brysing and Leucadia here, look at all the logical answers before jumping to conclusions. he could just have a really active imagination, with your son saying these things, your daughter will pick up on them and join in. watch your son, speak with him, if things progress, seek professional help. [psychiatrist, doctor] one thing you could try is go into his room, alone, and meditate [cast a circle to be safe] and see if you can sense anything.
now, lets say everything checks out and it turns out there really is something [like i said before though, look at all logical conclusions first] giving your son the crystal for protection is a good idea. what you should then do is cleanse his room with sage smudge and protect it. whatever it is, if it's real, could move to a different room, so it's a good idea to do the same throughout your home, just focus on his room since that's where it is. bit if a time consumer, and a pain, but best thing to do. after that, hang a charm in his room to keep negative energy out.
just don't panic, kids can say things to get attention, and make up stories. just tell him he's safe, and that he should ignore it. keep a watchful eye on him and monitor his behavour.
By: LionRabbit / Beginner Feb 02, 2013
Post # 5
I agree with all of the above but children are very attentive to unseen forces. Where is your boy seeing this man? Is it in his dreams or in the physical world? In dreams fire and lava associate with anger and hidden anger or frustration. Sit down and talk with your boy, that way you will be able to gauge a better understanding of what he's seeing.
The images he sees could be from dreams he is having. Your daughter is probably just adding to his stories. I do not believe that they are just coming up with these things out of the blue from their imaginations. They have to hear or see something to begin with, especially if they are not exposed to these sort of images or other people to give them the ideas.
A child would not just say there is a man on fire if they have never seen fire. It may be from a dream like I said before. I also suggest asking him to draw the man, and ask your daughter to draw what she sees. I would then take the drawings to a professional and get their opinion on how to help the kids not to be scared of what they are telling you about.
Try to cleanse your house. There is a chance that the child could be lying. You should still cleanse your house with sage on the off chance he isn't lying. Sage I'd a great cleanser. Hopefully this helps.
However much imagination kids have when they are that age they can not imagine what they have not once seen or heard being that we teach our young every single thing from walking talking eating to friendship facial expression and personality traits in basic form at that age. First take time to think where he may have seen a movie that talked about a man on fire or something. Perception is belief in the eye of the beholder. But if nothing else cleanse your house without him knowing and see if he says anything. Ask him what the man says and ask him what he says to the man. And your daughter is more likely than not trying to get the attention she sees you giving your son as she has learned this behavior as well over time. Be blessed and don't think he is crazy he may have a gift!