The best way to balance yourself is to meditate. Meditation will help clear your mind and help you relax. Exercise also assists in making you stronger and happier. Consume healthy foods such as bananas, apricots, blueberries, carrots, hard-boiled eggs, and grains (wheat is healthier than white bread), fish, broccoli. Most important maintain a posistive outlook on life. When things get tough strive forward, set new goals, and learn from your mistakes. A spell that is rated 5 stars is called "Summoning a Neutral Being." Under the spells tab, in the search quiry type 'balance.'