Please I need help. I've been in a relationship with someone for 11 years. We lived together up until 6 months ago. I believe this person is my soulmate and I love her with all my heart. I'm devastated over this so much that I have physical pain. she is now with someone else and it's killing me,I can't eat sleep or work I constantly think about her.I'm new to magic and trying hard to understand. I have read the wicca handbook by Eileen Holland it has helped.I've been trying to catch a break up speel and bring my ex back.It doesn't seem to be working. What I need is some guidance from someone with experience with this kind of speel.Anything at all that anyone can help me with would be greatly appreciated.
Re: need serious help...
By: AwakeTooLong / Knowledgeable Jan 21, 2013
Post # 3
Even when this sort of spell works, if it compels somebody to be with you against their natural inclination it results in a rather intensely unhealthy relationship. There is nothing worse than a relationship where one individual is simply not happy.
If you love this person, would you force them to be with you when they already chose to be elsewhere?