You could also light a candle in her honor, to show that you aren't ignoring her and are trying to reach her. I've written letters and burned them or buried them and it's worked, I just wouldn't write in harsh inks so if you bury them it won't hurt the Earth and if burned it won't have a harsh odor.
Doing research is always the best though, so you can know a little more about her personality.
Love, light, and blessings! )O(
If you feel drawn to her and a connection you cannot explain then probably so. Sounds like she is reaching out to you. She may very well be your Deity. She research, study, even pray to her and see where that gets you :)